Whether it’s because you didn’t expect to get hot and heavy or you just want to save some money. Finding quick and accessible alternatives to fast drying water—or silicone-based lubes is something many sexually active people have experienced. And let’s face it, without lube, some things just aren’t so easy or fun, am I right? But can you use coconut oil as lube?
With so many ways to get slicked, it’s hard to know what can and can’t you use.
Oils have been used as lubes for centuries, so they must be safe, right? And coconut oil is so popular as the cure for all things dry…it must make magic as a lube…or does it?
The Truth About Coconut Oil
It’s been hailed as the miracle oil for years now, piled high on store shelves everywhere. And it’s not without merit: Coconut oil has a lot of great qualities in and out of the bedroom. Coconut oil will clean your teeth, and your intestines, and will help our BFF’s with their vaginal dryness. But how will it treat your backdoor?
The Pros and Cons of Using Coconut Oil As Lube
Pros of using coconut oil as lube:
It is antibacterial and antiviral.
Say goodbye to yeasty, bacteria based smells and infections! Coconut Oil is ideal for those who want to skip a trip to the drugstore to get their yeast infections (or crotch rot) in order. So not sexy. According to Dr. Oz, coconut oil’s caprylic acid staves off the Candida albicans fungus, which is notorious for causing yeast infections and other microbial infections. I think it’s fair to assume everyone wants a yeast infection-free body, so coconut oil will do just that when used as a lube.
It’s great for anal sex – as long as you don’t use latex condoms
The rectum doesn’t self-lubricate like vaginas do, so finding lubrication that can handle our favorite sensitive area can be tricky. Luckily, coconut oil provides enough thickness to keep friction at bay and it lasts a long time too so you won’t need to reapply it as much. It’s an oil that lasts as long as you can—and smells great while doing it.
Sad for you men on the prowl though. As we will see in a minute…coconut oil may get you nice and lubricated, but it kills latex condoms dead. So, bears and cubs and all the ladies men…only use it with non-latex condoms.
Coconut oil has been touted throughout the years as an amazing wonder oil for its moisturizing abilities—and moisturizing your sexy time parts is no exception. It works for every part of the body, including cock, balls and anus. It’s the perfect lube that gets the job done and keeps your erogenous zones more velvety smooth after the deeds are done.
You can get 30 oz of this stuff for under $10. There are tons of cheap brands out there, but it is most recommended to use unprocessed organic coconut oil to get the full benefits out of their lubricating properties, obviously.
It’s all natural
No one wants harsh, unnecessary chemicals touching the most sensitive parts of their body. Natural coconut oil will give you just that—oil and nothing else. It’s great for those who want to have a clean, organic way to enjoy sex without worrying about the effects of the ingredients on the body.
It’s already flavored lube
Great for oral sex without worrying about glycerin, parabens, propylene glycols, and other nasty things found in cheaper edible lubes.
It’s more than a lube alone
So as you’re going down on your partner, you can clean your teeth as well as give head. Coconut oil is a natural toothpaste, sunscreen, bug repellent, conditioner… the list goes on. There are millions of websites listing the different uses of coconut oil, so it’s a versatile purchase for those versatile types out there. You can keep a jar in the kitchen to cook with and keep one in the bedroom. The possibilities are endless.
But before you go running into the streets to buy shopping carts full of coconut oil, keep this in mind.
Cons of using coconut oil as lube:
There’s no real scientific proof of its worth.
A lot of what everyone is saying is anecdotal. If you find that’s enough to sway your opinion, great. But the empirical data is still missing for the usage of coconut oil and there’s no definite say whether it is totally positive or negative. Until then, we can proceed with caution.
Look, if it gets us sliding in nice and easy, does it matter whether it has other magical unicorn properties? Just sayin’.
Coconut oil breaks condoms.
This much we do know, as it goes for any oil with latex condoms. Oil makes the latex porous and leads to breakages. This is disastrous for those wanting to have safe sex and keep disease away because coconut oil won’t protect you from the big STDs or STIs.
For this reason alone, we suggest our natural, no funny-stuff added, water-based lube formulas for the single man hittin’ the gym and clubs to find a cub (or two) for the night. Sex positive play deserves disease free partners.
Reduces sperm motility
Again, this is something that most oils do when used as lube. Sperm has a harder time maneuvering through the vaginal canal for fertilization, thus making conception much harder.
Those allergic to coconut oil should, of course, steer clear of using it as a lube. If you are prone to skin rashes and blistering after dermal use of coconut oil, DO NOT use it as lube. For everyone’s sake, please don’t. Rashes on privates is such a turn off.
The smell and taste of coconut itself
If you’re not a fan of coconut, there’s no real getting around this one. Despite the amazing perks of using coconut oil, if you or your partner simply find it unpleasant then it’s not usable in the bedroom.
If you find that the cons outweigh the pros, here’s a highly recommended coconut oil brand:
Viva Naturals Extra Virgin Coconut Oil
With over 13,000 positive ratings on Amazon to date, there’s a reason why this coconut oil is the best. It is organic, 100% pure, cold-pressed, and unrefined to keep as many natural properties of the oil as possible. It’s not made from coconut farms either; Viva contracts with local farmers in the Philippines to pick the ripest and most nutritive coconuts available. It’s a great, natural pick for anyone wanting all the unadulterated benefits of coconut oil.
If you still want to the benefits of coconut oil but don’t want to commit to using the original oil as lube, there are some products out there for lube:
Boy Butter Original Formula
This lube works great for sex, especially anal. It’s non-staining and compatible with all sex toys. It’s not sticky and non-smelling, absorbing into the skin and leaving you soft and ready for anything. And once you’re done, wipe it away and forget about it. It’s wonderful for those wanting something thick and creamy to get the job done, with minimal cons to it.
So there you go. Coconut oil can be used as lube because of its anti-bacterial and anti-inflammatory capacities, but should absolutely not be used with people wanting to use condoms during sex or couples trying to conceive. As with anything, assess your own needs before you try an item, and do your research as to what best brands exist out there.